the more she tries to hide, the more she is been seen.
So, really..
peel off the mask,
and,
vulnerable as it may seem..
it is the only way we can grow up...
hiding behind masquerade,
is just, somehow,
showing even more how vulnerable you are...
you dread to reveal you true self,
'cause you fear of rejection you may then receive.
yea, it hurts.
you dread to let other knows something and never want to admit,
'cause you fear of what and how other may say or judge.
but,
that's the only way we can grow up. and get even stronger.
yes,
maybe not everyone will accept the undisguised you.
maybe not everyone will understand the undisguised you.
and maybe not everyone will appreciate the undisguised you.
but,
so what?
this is the way we learn.
to grow up and to be better.
no pain no gain, remember?
and,
despite all,
at least,
you are honest and sincere.
that, you already deserve a big applause :)
because i do hate some people who kept pretending..
and.. telling lies to cover some facts..
and actually i knew.. but then..
oh well, not my business either. =X
but i wish you could learn. both us learn. :)
带着假面具，在人前显得坚强，却不见得你真的有多坚强，因为你承担不了被拒绝的伤害；
卸下假面具，摊开脆弱的一面，却不见得你真的有多脆弱，因为你比别人更勇敢面对自己。
telling you, telling myself. cheers :)
1 Corinthians 13 ~ Love ^ The Greatest Gift
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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*Mr Right & Ms Right =D* { ..緣份是找到包容你的人 .. }
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跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。
在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上她的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，
錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
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