每个人，
都随身带着，
至少一个面具。。
不管是谁，
都一样。
没有人是完美的，
所以人都需要面具。
面具，
掩饰人最丑陋的一面。
面具，
因为在意人的眼光。
也因为不想失去。
有谁不需要面具？
有谁会不在意别人的眼光？
有谁真的能赤裸裸把自己摊开在人面前？
当你不能坦诚，
你就带着一个面具。
不管是世上哪种关系，
除了人跟上帝的关系。
我想。。
再没有100％坦诚的关。
当你想掩饰，
你就带着一个面具。
掩饰自己的错，
掩饰自己的恶，
掩饰自己不为人知的一面。
当你讨厌不爽一个朋友，
你不能对着他来说，
你就带着一个面具。
面对着喜笑，
背对着怒言。
每个人，
都有一幅面具。
只不过，
面具也有很多种。
有种面具，
是因为不想伤害他人。
有种面具，
只是想保护自己。
有种面具，
是自私的。
过去，
我看不到自己的面具，
只看到别人的伪善。
不明白为什么，
如此信任的人，
也会如此。
不明白，
微笑是因为友善，
还是为了遮掩自己的缺陷，不想被鄙视。。
现在，
我明白了。。
人，
都一样。
只有包容和接纳，
才能延续关系。
每个人，
都一样。
批评，
指责，
道是非，
是否就能改变一个人？
是否就能帮助到他？
是否就能解决问题？
无语。冥思。
1 Corinthians 13 ~ Love ^ The Greatest Gift
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。
在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上她的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，
錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
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