God loves you just the way you are, but He refuses to leave you that way. He wants you to be just like Jesus. -Max Lucado.
so, stop saying u are just being yourself.
unless u think yourself are just made to be average.
dont take things for granted!
people accept u for who u are doesnt mean u have the right to ignore what other might feel when u are in who u are!
o yes we can say love me then stay hate me the f*ck off,
but, plz, dont be selfish and self-centered.
they love u enough to ignore the hurtful feeling u give to them,
can't u love them even more? don't take this love for granted!
one day u may lose it all.
if people dislike u, don't look so high to yourself that u think they are just being jealous over u.
or think you are popular enough to have hater.
examine urself in front of mirror first.
we have no reason to love about a person,
but there are millions reasons to come out when we dislike a person. i bet u know that very well.
so, it is the same when there are people dislike you! there must be a reason!
so check it! and correct it!
dont be too ego that u cant admit a wrong of yourself!
but then u can choose to stay in your comfort zone and refuse to change.
just be yourself.
up to u.
i aim for better.
ta.
1 Corinthians 13 ~ Love ^ The Greatest Gift
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
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跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。
在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上她的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，
錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
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